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HOW CAN WE HELP OUR LOVED ONES WHO
HAVE JUST DIED AND AT THE SAME TIME BE CLOSE TO THEM?
By Jurgen Ziewe author of Multi-Dimensional
Man and Vistas
of Infinity. AND See
I received a message from a person whose uncle had
taken his own life after being ill and suffering
a great deal from the consequences of alcoholism. I would
like to share what I wrote to him and what I have learned
from hundreds of out of body experiences, visiting the afterlife
states which i have amply described in two of my books (lately
I told the person that the best way to understand
his uncles post-life condition would naturally be by projecting
to him via an induced OBE. As this is hard or impossible
for most people to do we simply need to understand what
is actually taking place with our loved ones when we surround
them with love energy. How will they experience it? What
will they actually see and feel from their position in the
afterlife state they are in.
I would like to consider the worst
case scenario, because unless we project, we cannot
know what our loved ones are going through because we cannot
know whether other higher energies or agencies may have
taken control over the situation or not.
So to be on the safe side I am taking this worst case scenario
from my own astral travel experiences with people who had
prolonged, negative experiences, fixations and suffering
and found it hard to let go after they crossed over.
In these protracted mental states people
often find it hard to break the conditioned shells and habitual
states when they cross over. On occasion their state
of mind may put them into a dark environment or they may
cocoon themselves in self pity. If this happens there is
a lot we can do.
We can put ourselves mentally in their presence,
using imagination, with kindness, goodwill and love. This
is how our loved one is likely to experience it:
He/she will become aware of your luminous
energy. If other living relatives participate, this will
even be much stronger. Lets say they still feel depression
and sadness. Their environment will light up, a little at
first, and they will feel a comforting energy surrounding
them. This will allow them to release sadness, they will
probably cry and a large part of his build up tension will
be released as a result. As you keep imagining yourself
near them, perhaps with you arms around him or her, they
will become aware of your emotional astral bodies, which
will be perceived by them as a benevolent, warming, comforting
and illuminating energy. They are likely to see your apparition.
They will observe their environment
lighting up. Lets
say his or her depression had taken them to a bleak corner
of the afterlife, perhaps quite dark like night, they will
now see the morning dawning into daylight. They may find
themselves now surrounded by lush green, there will be flowers
reacting to your energy and opening and blossoming as their
spirits are lifted. Slowly but surely, with your continuing
help, they will come to realise that they have woken from
a bad dream, that all the pain and suffering are gone and
they are now in the presence of much more positive energies
and their environment is transformed into a very beautiful
surrounding, a new dawn, a new life.
Naturally they will attract new helpers
who will take over from you if they haven't done so already,
perhaps before you even sent your first energy, but we don't
know this and we want to be sure.
For you and your family there is really
no reason to be sad or concerned as you can be assured of
their gratitude and love being reciprocated. In
fact every time you feel love you will become aware of their
presence. So the feeling of mourning, of separation will
gradually fade. I know this from experience, as I am still
connected to all the people I have lost and feel no loss
whatsoever. Every time I feel love for them I can feel theirs
and I know for certain that death cannot separate us.
I want you to know this as well. "